When I decided to start a blog, partly as a more anonymous way of following my better half’s blog and partly intending to start blogging some things myself, I struggled with what to call myself here. I tossed around ideas in my head for a new persona, a new online identity for this aspect of my life. None seemed to fit. I bounced ideas off the wife, she agreed none sounded like “me.” She then simply recommended trying an online random name generator, so I did. Low and behold the second one down on the list was Defiant Whispers, we agreed and giggled that defiant really wasn’t fitting. Though I realized and stated that with a simple replacement of one letter; Defiant became Deviant, and it was a perfect fit.